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Can you be gay and Christian? Is it a sin to be gay? How do you live life without sex? How do I support my same-sex attracted Christian friend/family member?
We are a group of Christians who experience same-sex attraction bringing out into the open the questions and dilemmas that gay Christians can often face.

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Ed

“I can live without sex because sex isn’t the only way for deep and meaningful relationships with other people.”

Sam

"The One who made me and knows me better than I know myself is going to know what's good for me."

Sean and Gaby

"There has definitely been some change in my attractions and feelings.”

Vaughan

"God's teaching about sex is marvellous and challenging for everyone"

Mark

"I lived within the gay community for over 20 years, fully identifying myself as a gay individual."

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Understanding the causes of same-sex attraction
Understanding the causes of same-sex attraction

A summary of the latest research.

Purity is the answer to our greatest need
Purity is the answer to our greatest need

A great perspective on sex and intimacy.

 Isn’t the Christian view of sexuality dangerous & harmful?
Isn’t the Christian view of sexuality dangerous & harmful?

Sam Allberry answers a persistent question.

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A biblical perspective on being Christian and gay

We experience same-sex attraction and yet are committed to what the Bible clearly says, and what the church has always taught, about marriage and sex. We do not identify as gay Christians, preferring to use the term "same-sex attracted" (find out why).

With friends, we’ve set up this website to articulate a perspective that is not often heard – that of men and women who are honest and open about their same-sex attraction, but who have discovered that obedience to Jesus in this area of life is fulfilling, healthy and authentic. We want people who experience same-sex attraction, those who self-identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual or transsexual (LGBT) or who are just questioning; their family and friends; their churches and pastors; and those investigating Christianity, to find here a plausible way of living out what Christians have consistently believed about marriage and sex. Find out more