The Idols of Same-Sex Attraction

"Contrary to heterosexual desires (a desire for what we are not, and cannot become), same-sex desires are cravings for what we want to see in ourselves, but lack. Often a powerful emotional over-dependency, and a profound need to be around someone to gain their approval and affirmation, arise in the heart as a result."

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http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/the-idol-behind-same-sex-desires

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